Cradle & Care

Social & emotional

Pretend play

Many babies — 18–24 months

Feeding a doll, talking on a toy phone — imagination and empathy taking shape.

What’s happening

Feeding a doll or talking on a toy phone shows real imagination taking shape — letting one thing represent another is a genuine cognitive leap, not just cute mimicry. Early pretend play usually starts by copying what they see you do (stirring a pot, talking on the phone) before it becomes more inventive.

How to support it

  • Follow their lead rather than directing the play — this is their chance to be in charge.
  • Simple props (a phone, a doll, kitchen toys) go further than elaborate ones; their imagination does the rest.
  • Narrate their play back to them ('the baby's hungry, you're feeding her!') — it extends the story without taking it over.
  • Let everyday objects double as props — a wooden spoon as a microphone counts as much as a real toy.

Often comes after object permanence

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