Social & emotional
Pretend play
Many babies — 18–24 months
Feeding a doll, talking on a toy phone — imagination and empathy taking shape.
What’s happening
Feeding a doll or talking on a toy phone shows real imagination taking shape — letting one thing represent another is a genuine cognitive leap, not just cute mimicry. Early pretend play usually starts by copying what they see you do (stirring a pot, talking on the phone) before it becomes more inventive.
How to support it
- Follow their lead rather than directing the play — this is their chance to be in charge.
- Simple props (a phone, a doll, kitchen toys) go further than elaborate ones; their imagination does the rest.
- Narrate their play back to them ('the baby's hungry, you're feeding her!') — it extends the story without taking it over.
- Let everyday objects double as props — a wooden spoon as a microphone counts as much as a real toy.
Often comes after object permanence
Where this comes from
- The PretendersZero to Three
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