Hands (fine motor)
Passing objects hand to hand
Many babies — 6–8 months
Moving a toy from one hand to the other, and banging things together.
What’s happening
Passing a toy hand to hand and banging things together shows growing coordination — using both hands together on purpose, not just one at a time. It usually shows up as toys crossing the middle of the body, which is its own small coordination leap.
How to support it
- Offer two similar toys at once so there's a reason to hold one in each hand.
- Stacking cups or toys that bang together safely turn the banging instinct into play.
- Sit them at a low table or tray — a stable surface makes deliberate hand-to-hand transfers easier than doing it in the air.
When to ask your pediatrician
Banging two things together and moving a toy hand to hand are both CDC checkpoints for 9 months. If your baby isn't using either hand to reach or hold objects by then, mention it at their next visit.
Often comes after grasping and reaching
Often leads to pincer grasp
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